Showing posts with label Positivity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Positivity. Show all posts

Monday, August 3, 2015

What I learned from being an Orientation Leader this summer...

Hey everyone!

These past few months I have been working at my college as a summer Orientation Leader.

What is an Orientation Leader?

Orientation Leaders (OLs) are role models as well as sources of support and information for new first-year and transfer students. They play a major role in facilitating the adjustment of new students and their families to the college community.

Me and a fellow OL lookin groovy in our polos and sunglasses!

At my school, we run 8, 3-Day Orientation Sessions to help students register for classes, adjust to College life, get to know the campus, and meet new people. I've learned a ton of things in this role, and recommend that any seniors graduating from High School and current college students to apply for this on-campus opportunity at some point in their college careers. 



  1. Focus on the fun, and be a little weird!


Summer Jobs and tasks can be challenging-it's important to have fun everyday and make boring situations into fun, exciting ones! 


The weird moments are the most memorable and hilarious moments.

2. Teamwork makes the Dream work


...Having a team is the coolest thing in the world! 
They are a great source of support, love and joy. There are some jobs that you just can't do on your own-like running a social program for 300+ students, or stuffing thousands of Orientation folders with pamphlets and information.


You need people to depend on that will catch you so you don't fall.


3. Setting attainable goals is extremely important for growth

During training, we were all required to set leadership goals for Orientation. Our supervisors hung the goals all around our office so that we would hold ourselves and each other accountable throughout the summer. It was cool to see ourselves, and to see our peers grow and work towards achieving their goals!

4. It's okay to take baby steps towards a goal...


Some of the goals that we set for ourselves at orientation were huge-many of us sought to improve our communication or group facilitation skills. Taking small steps like interacting with students one-on-one or volunteering to complete an intimidating task were important. Monuments aren't build in one day, and neither are great skills!

5. Icebreakers are the answer to EVERYTHING!


Standing in an awkward group of people? Unsure how to meet someone new? Bored in an information session? Try doing an Icebreaker!

Icebreakers, according to Urban Dictionary, are defined as "something which can break the ice, i.e. something to focus on to start a conversation, in order to prevent any awkwardness in a social situation." 


At Orientation, we played Icebreaker games that helped to introduce individuals to a group, push people out of their comfort zones, and induced awkward laughter.


6. Deciding on where to eat with 19 other people can be tough...and also an adventure!
(Also, leftovers are your friend in college.)

My team and I were given a credit card every weekend with a $8 per person budget, and were told to order/cook food to suit every one's needs. Our group was an awesome mix of vegetarians, omnivores and self-proclaimed carnivores. We also had people who liked to eat really plain food and had fruit allergies. However, we were united by the single fact that we all LOVE FOOD.


Ordering food with all of these special limits in mind taught us a lot about compromise, communication, and food preparation. We rose to the challenge, and no one ever went to bed hungry.

7. Selfie Sticks are pretty handy tools! 
You never know when you'll need to cram 20+ people into one photo...

When trying to take large group pictures of OLs and Orientation students and College staff, the Selfie Stick became a way of life for us. Soon we were all accustomed to cramming ourselves together in odd positions and angles with a phone suspended above us. It may have looked stupid, but we had a ton of fun, and the pictures will surely be cherished for years to come! 

8. It's important to find ways to de-stress
It's okay to treat yourself to a break every now and again.


Working 7 am to 11 pm could be overwhelming. On off days we went hiking, saw movies, explored our College's town and Commons, played Frisbee and remained as active as possible. This was awesome, but sometimes we'd have too much planned on the weekends. Everyone realized quickly how important it is to step back and have some alone-time to chill before work started the following week.

9. Uniforms are easy to "spice up"

Required to wear the same polo and khakis everyday? No problem!
There's nothing a pair of funky socks, brightly colored shoes and glittery headbands can't spruce up!
These boots were a great conversation-starter! They matched my uniform (my school colors are blue and gold) and made every one's day alittle brighter! They are the ultimate fun accessory.

10. On that note...if you're lucky enough to work at a place that has regular "Fun Pants Fridays," then you're lucky enough.

11. There are some dance moves that will just stay with you forever...
AKA the Wobble, The "Stanky Leg," and the Sprinkler
At Orientation, we all became dancers. During the "opening ceremonies" of Orientation, the OLs were introduced to about 600+ students and family members via a 2 minute dance routine. We spent weeks choreographing the perfect dance moves and mashing up songs, and now I can proudly do some sort of modified "whip."
The Whip dance move
12. It's ok to let loose and act a little wacky (even in front of a 600+ audience) :



13. Be open to gaining new skills...whether it's learning to stack 20 glue sticks with chopsticks, discovering the perfect way to make a balloon hat, or developing better communications and interaction skills, there is always something you can take away from a new experience!


14. Office Work and answering phone calls isn't as boring as it sounds...
You can meet really cool people, have really great conversations with families and callers, and learn a lot about your school's wifi capabilities.


The Orientation Office Team

15. Public Speaking can be terrifying, but completely rewarding.


After your speech or introduction is over...there's an incredible feeling of victory:


16. "It's ok to make mistakes, and then to learn from them."-Will the OL



17. Pointing isn't always rude...sometimes it's the only way to give directions and dance fabulously.


18. Live every day with joy 
(giant rainbow chairs are a sure-fire way to brighten any one's day!)


...and it's okay to have other emotions and to share your feelings (as my staff learned while watching Inside Out)


19. Awkward photos will make great memories later on...

(See Selfie Stick Section above!)

...Also, Ice Pops are the BEST SNACK EVER (And your staff team may or may not eat 400 of them within a month)


20. It is totally possible that your staff will become your family...


My 2015 Orientation Staff was a wonderful group of people. Together we accomplished some amazing things and made some incredible memories.


 I wouldn't trade this past summer with them for the world!

So What?

Basically what I'm trying to say is that Orientation was a job that has brought me a ton of joy, and made me feel like I was using all of my skills and potential. I encourage all of the Girl Scouts looking for jobs next summer to find a position that makes them feel happy and useful

If you can't find a paying job that you love for the summer, find a volunteer position for a cause you support and do it on the side! 

There are so many opportunities to enjoy your summer job-take initiative, believe in yourself, and bring your creativity to the table!

Much love,
Gold Girl Allie

P.S. To learn more about becoming an Orientation Leader, check out your school's website and read this great (and accurate) BuzzFeed article!

Friday, July 10, 2015

Taylor Swift-Former Girl Scout and Current Role Model

    
November 18, 2012

Heyyyy Everyone!



A lot of strong women have been involved with the Girl Scouts of America organization since its creation in 1912!
(Photo from: http://www.billboard.com)
Today I would like to talk about one particularly successful young woman who was once involved with our organization-Taylor Swift!

What a fabulous and accomplished lady...

The last time I Blogged about Taylor Swift and Girl Scouts was back in November of 2012, right after Swift's new album "Red" dropped, and when I was talking about awesome women who were previously Girl Scouts! (for the full Blog Post-click here!)

Taylor has been pretty darn popular in the media lately-and has been doing extremely well for herself! 
Taylor's latest music video, "Bad Blood," was released May 17, and has already set a record on Vevo for getting over 20.1 million views in its first 24 hours! Check out the full article Here!

Sooooo Tay is pretty awesome.









She really supports people in being themselves, and is always flaunting her individuality



Earlier this year, Swift has called out the media and individuals for their sexist comments, and has embraced the idea of "feminism" fully and positively. Within her music, she has voiced her support for marriage equality and has spoken out against those who criticize who she is and her lifestyle. 

Media can be a very powerful tool, and has often been used to bring Swift and others down. Lately, Taylor has been using the media to put her own spin on things and to really make her voice and the voices of her fans heard. (Click here for a few more details about Swift's accomplishments this past year).
She has been a rock for many of her fans, and will often personally respond to their social media messages and letters in order to show her support. Most recently, Swift has responded to a young woman in Massapequa who had posted a message to Swift on Tumblr. The young woman had recently lost her mother to cancer, and expressed to Taylor how much her music means to her and how it has helped her to remain strong when her days are tough. Swift responded, sending hugs and stating:

 "I admire and respect your ability to put forth such a sunny, sweet disposition when you've been through something so dark and tragic so recently." 


Swift gives so much support back to her fans, and tries to build them up at every opportunity.








So, in her honor, I've put together a short list of my favorite Taylor Swift songs that have great messages!




                                              1. Mean




This song is from Swift's third studio album, Speak Now (2010). This song speaks out against critics and people who pass unnecessary judgment on others. The song encourages people to ignore their bullies and their critics, and to focus on their future goals. The song also speaks about the power of bad karma. The most powerful lyrics are "someday, I'll be living in a big old city, and all you're ever gonna be is mean." 

What it means to me:

This song helped me keep up my spirits during my Freshman Year of college. Words can be extremely powerful and hurtful-and I think that this song really captures that idea. 


When people are being "mean," I think it is important to take a step back and realize that everyone is facing trials. People who put others down are often being put down themselves. However, at the same time it's important to be able to stand up for yourself and to realize that you were made for bigger and better things. The hurtful things that others say should not define you-you are the only person who can determine your worth. I have learned that the best way to deal with mean, unhappy people is to treat them with kindness. A little kindness can go a long way, and everyone can use a kind word or a compliment. Never be afraid to be nice or to be yourself. 


2. Shake it Off


This song is very similar to "Mean" in that it dismisses the statements of bullies and critics. The media, reporters and people in my communications classes are constantly berading Swift for dating so many different people, for going out and for the type of music that she writes. 

What it means to me:

You go Taylor! Live your life!
Taylor Swift's choices are her own. She controls her own life, and so I think that this song is an awesome anthem. It encourages people to be themselves, and to do what makes them happy. When we take the words of our critics too seriously and make changes in order to please others, we are not living for ourselves.  This song helped me to realize that in order to make myself happy and to do my best, I had to do my own thing. 





                                             3. Ronan


Taylor Swift wrote Ronan to raise money for children and families suffering as a result of childhood cancers. She wrote the song for a little boy who passed away due to neuroblastoma. The song's lyrics were based upon Ronan's mother's blog posts about Ronan and his life. Swift sang the song live in 2012 for Stand Up Against Cancer, giving all proceeds made off of the single's sale to help the fight against cancer. For more information and background on this inspiring song, click here.

4. Fifteen


What it means to me:

Fifteen is a lot about the transition to High School. The song speaks about remaining true to yourself, and valueing your experiences and talents. 



She encourages people to realize that they will do greater things in their lives than "dating the boy on the football team." 
I think this is an extremely important messages for teens and women of any age to keep in mind-we are more than who we date, and we are more than the assumptions and perceptions of others. 

This song goes beyond "dating"-it talks about making new friends, starting high school and learning first hand about life. 


                                             5. Change

Great song about looking forward and working towards success. You need to work through the tough times, and enjoy the good ones.

6. Long Live
This is absolutely one of my favorite songs! 
"Long Live" was written as a "love song" to Taylor's entire musical/tour team. It's an empowering song about being an underdog, victory, acceptance and joy, with a "big triumphant message of hope." 
I remember dancing to this song with my best friend in high school, and singing it while waiting online for the midnight premiere of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2. :)

7. Never Grow Up

This song is all about getting older and learning to appreciate what and who you have in your life.
The message? Take things slow and appreciate the now.

8. The Best Day

This song is especially close to my heart. Taylor wrote "The Best Day" for her mother. It's all about their relationship, and how important and beautiful it is to Taylor. I really connect with this song. My mom and I are super close and I feel like this song is a great thank you to mothers and families for all of their hard work and support-through both the good times and the bad <3




Take this Taylor Swift knowledge and channel the positive vibes into your lives! :)





Much Love,
Gold Girl Allie :)